a sign

As I am out with a chubby baby and toddler dressed in everything frilly and pink I know that I look fertile. People would assume so but that isn't the case. It pains me to think that there are infertile couples out there that would look at me and think this not knowing I am on their side or in their corner. I know I assumed things about people and when I talked to them it turned out they struggled for years or did IVF or DE. I wish there was some sort of infertility gang sign we could flash each other. The best I can do is be open and honest and hope my openness makes at least one person feel a little less alone.